I had the
privilege of attending a Deaf Women United conference this weekend in Northern
California. They are celebrating their 30th anniversary, and how
fitting it is that their main topic has been social justice and all of the
journeys we take to get from where we are privileged to a place where we
understand and respect other people’s cultures and social identities. I have
learned a few new things, and am reminded of other things I learned before and
forgot.
As I expected,
their answers to diversity were more robust than their ideas about culture. They
were more knowledgeable and engaged with the topic of diversity. Mostly, we
talked about our own social identities, and how some of our “privileges” are
both privilege and oppressive.
Most of the
responses I got were about the surface cultures that we all are familiar with
and learned in our class the past couple of weeks. It includes the languages we
speak, the clothes, and values & traditions. However, one of the workshop
presenters I asked said how her three social identities often conflict with
each other. She is a Black Deaf Woman.
She has three “cultures” where she had to navigate the conflicts between
Black/White, Deaf/Hearing, and Woman/Male. She was an angry person who has
learned to love people and work through their differences. I learned so much
from watching her present her three identities and how she has come to a point
where she is embracing each of the three identities she has. She illuminated
what Ngo (2008) discussed and suggested, “Rather than whole, seamless, or
naturally occurring, culture and identity are the result of differentiation in
social relations…they emerge within the play of specific modalities of power,
and thus are more the product of the marking of difference and exclusion, than
they are the sign of an identical, naturally-constituted unity” (p.6).
We had a
discussion where we identified our privilege and our oppression. A few of us
talked about how being smart or intelligent is both a privilege and oppressive.
It is good to know how other women also share my thoughts. We talked about how
some people are just so smart they cannot handle it. Frequently, people do not
understand what smart people are talking about and look at them with askance.
Ultimately, the
only way we all can understand each other, and start to respect each other is
to have a continuing dialogue where we talk through our differences or
disagreements. As my Foundations to Early Childhood Education said, it is the
responsibility of the education professionals to find out more about each of
the child.
Ngo, B. (2008). Beyond
"culture clash": Understanding of immigrant experiences. Theory
into Practice, 47(1), 4–11.
Marla,
ReplyDeleteThat sound like a great conference. It was on time with our lesson this week on culture and diversity. As you stated in your post, most people discuss surface cultures when mentioning culture. That's great the presenter opened up and shared her culture with others.
Hi Marla,
ReplyDeleteIt is so interesting that you mentioned the woman at the conference with the three distinct social identities. One of the people that I asked to define culture and diversity was a gay Irish immigrant who has been living in America for almost 20 years. He told me he has three cultures: Irish, American, and gay. He did not say his cultures were in conflict, just that they were each distinct parts of who he is. I found his response very interesting and thought provoking, much as you did when you spoke about the woman from the conference. Thank you for your insights.
Hi Marla,
ReplyDeleteSuch an interesting post! The conference you attended sounds like it was wonderful and the lady you spoke of sounds very knowledgeable and interesting. How interesting too, that it mirrored our class this week.
Thank you for your great post!
Hello Marla,
ReplyDeleteI truly enjoy your post, I also found persons spoke more on surface culture than on deep culture. Do you think it may be because many of us do not understand how our behaviour and attitude is greatly affected by deep culture? It was a revealing week listening to all the responses.
Mary